Is Your Energy Being Harvested?

Season #7

If you’ve been feeling strangely drained, foggy, or off-center lately, you’re not imagining it—and nothing is “wrong” with you.

In this episode of Your Yes Filled Life, I’m naming something I’ve never fully talked about publicly before: energy harvesting.

Energy harvesting is what happens when your attention, emotional labor, ideas, intuition, or nervous system regulation are being extracted without your consent and without true reciprocity—often under the guise of growth, service, leadership, spirituality, or belonging.

If you’re an empath, intuitive, healer, or helper, you are especially vulnerable to this. You give freely, you care deeply, and you often assume the cost is yours to quietly absorb.

In this episode, I talk about:

  • What energy harvesting actually is
  • How it can show up in masterminds, coaching containers, leadership roles, media cycles, and spiritual communities
  • Why leaving an extractive system can feel like withdrawal, not instant relief
  • Why you may feel disoriented, tired, or “off” right now—even if nothing has changed on paper
  • How to begin reclaiming energetic sovereignty using my simple “zip up” method

You’ll also hear some of my own stories of leaving misaligned containers, what it felt like in my body, and why I’m so committed to creating spaces that are not extractive—whether that’s the Intuitive Leader Retreat, the Spiritual CEO membership, or private sessions.

Most importantly, I’ll help you start recognizing where your energy is being harvested, and how you can begin to call it back—without losing your empathy, your heart, or your gifts.

If you’re craving a space that honors your sensitivity while respecting your sovereignty, this is the work we’ll be doing together at the Intuitive Leader Retreat and inside my 1:1 and community containers.

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